Beliefs Are Tricky… calendar_today September 23rd, 2026 Listen On iTunesListen On SpotifyWatch on YouTube The sense of self may die, but these termites eating my house are still VERY much alive 😉 0:00 Welcome, beliefs are tricky as the theme for today 0:53 The VPZD show as a dance between conditioning and audience reaction 2:03 How fighting for a cause is really fighting for identity 3:36 Advice on communicating needs to a partner 6:23 Book recommendations for exploring non-duality and self-dissolution 8:50 A partner’s neediness as a mirror for your own conditioning 10:39 Doctor as just another identity that has fallen away 11:23 Finding meaning in a meaningless existence 13:18 Why human consciousness feels so negative 16:13 Letting go of the belief that you should be a positive person 17:09 Getting contradictory antivax and provax accusations back to back 18:13 Substituting one identity paradigm for another is still belief 20:15 Reflecting on the 30s, 40s, and 50s as different flavors of seeking 20:59 Flu shots, personal risk tolerance, and not telling others what to do 23:10 The shingles vaccine decision and weighing discomfort against risk 24:07 Nothing is happening, yet the characters keep playing out their story 25:15 Political yard signs causing friction with a spouse 26:13 Where do you see yourself in five million years 26:20 Sitting with the shock of losing a friend badly 28:09 What is the point of any of this 29:02 Termites, relative and ultimate reality, and why you still call the exterminator 30:38 Crystal’s comment on programming and letting go of tribal fighting 32:12 The Macklemore and Ed Sheeran controversy revisited 39:59 Viewers pointing to Macklemore songs and other political art 43:09 Richard Wagner as an example of beauty coexisting with bigotry 43:50 Working with insects as a way to understand fear 44:45 Closing thoughts on why this Tik Tok live feels accepting   Subscribe to Podcast Tags Live Non-duality